Update

Bobby's car is fine, praise God! We took it to the dealership, they ran a diagnostic (which they waved the $100+ fee for) and turns out it was a problem solved by the recall repairs. Not a dime was spent on our end, and the car is running great now. God is good, all the time. :)

PS: Do not see Guardians of the Galaxy. That movie was DUMB. We even saw it in 3d and I was STILL falling asleep. 

August 5, 2009

Happy 5th Wedding Anniversary to us! It's been a busy morning for us with having to take Bobby's car to the dealership in Austin, having to pick him up at 7:30, hearing some not so great news about his car...all things that could have potentially put a damper on our day, but not to worry, we don't put our faith in material things. Despite that little hiccup, we hugged each other this morning and thanked God for all of our blessings and for giving us our health, the health of our family, another working vehicle, our home,...the list could on for days! Most importantly, we thank God that all things work for good, and that He always provides for our needs. 5 years ago, He brought Bobby and I together in holy matrimony on the most beautiful private beach in Honolulu, HI. I remember I hadn't seen it at all until that walk down the aisle to my soon-to-be hubby. I remember feeling like I was in heaven walking barefoot on that soft white sand, holding my Daddy's arm, seeing my family and friends with tears in their eyes; I could feel my Lord and Savior all around me. We said our vows as the waves crashed into the shore not too far from us, the cool breeze blowing through my hair; it was like God was giving His blessing on our union. My daddy said the most beautiful prayer through tears before handing me to Bobby, and after that I just remember that we both had a hard time making it through our vows without crying. As I type this, I'm trying so hard not to cry now. I told Bobby this morning that I felt bad that we didn't really plan anything for today except a casual dinner and a movie; no gifts or elaborate getaways at a B&B or hotel. He said, "That isn't what matters. We may not be great at planning celebrations, but we are GREAT at loving each other." I kind of chuckled as I thought he just wanted to earn brownie points with me, but you know, he's right. We have always had a solid foundation, and I have always trusted in our love for one another. He is more than my best friend at this point, he is a part of me; a part that I need desperately. We rely on each other for support, advice, a shoulder to cry on,... we are part of each other. I always thought that part from Jerry McGuire where he says, "You complete me" was super corny, but it totally makes sense to me now. Bobby completes me; he makes me whole. I praise God for finding my other half, and for bringing a man of faith into my life. We build each other up, we live to see the other person happy and at peace. We strive for the same goals, as a team. Now that we have a daughter, it's an even deeper love because we share the same excitement and concerns as we watch our baby girl grow. We have this silly thing we say whenever we come to a resolution after an argument or long talk where we look at each other and say, "Home Team". Then we give each other a quick smooch and resume our day. I am so thankful that we are on the same team, and that I can talk to my husband about literally ANYTHING without fearing judgement or feeling shame. As we get older, our love for each other keeps evolving and getting stronger. It's a beautiful thing, and I look forward to seeing where we are and who we are in 45 years to come. I love you, Bobby. You are my rock, my reminder of all good things that I strive for, my center, my home.

"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres." 1 Corinthians 13:4-7